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SG's Third Lesson To NG

In everything you do, be patient.

I am sometimes a very impatient person. So when I learned that I would be left with my niece 24 hours, in my head I heard a warning sound. I do love my niece and I love children. Who wouldn't love them I guess? Their little smile and sweet hug are the sweetest thing in the world. But children do not smile all day, they cry, they have tantrums. Being with my niece taught me how to be patient. She taught me how to care more, how to extend my understanding a little further beyond words can compare.

I can now say that I can handle her as easy as one, two, three. I can bathe her without drama and now it's lesser please. She enjoys the water. I can change her diaper while singing ABC's and love songs. I can feed her and bring her to sleep now. Stepping out into my comfort zone taught me a lot, I think. So 'til the next lesson. :)

Meet my adorable niece. ^_^








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Year-End Post: NG's Best Of 2013

Warning, long post ahead! ^_^

I know it's been two weeks after New Year and still I hadn't had the time to write my reflection about the year passed. I crammed before the year ends and managed to squeeze few events which requires me to escape urban life for a moment. So before the muse left again, let me share the highlight of my 2013.

I remember posting a status last January 2013 that goes, "Looking forward to a great 2013. I have to be happy and in His time I will be." If you've been reading this blog of mine for quiet sometime now, you know that 2012 had been an emotional year for me. So I prayed, even prayed so hard, for me to be a better person. That in time, in God's perfect time, I can decipher what His plan for me. And as the song said, "Count your blessings, name them one by one..." I made it to a point to be thankful for everything, not just those wonderful memories but even those pain, those depression and heartaches.

 The highlight of my 2013!

1. I survived a week of fasting.


Yeah, God gave me enough grace and courage to survived a week of fasting. I have to thank my VG, especially, my leader Miss Inna, who encourage me to this. My friend/girlfriend/co-writer and sister in faith, Czeila helped me. I always thanked Him for putting the right people in my path.

2. My first airplane ride and my travels!

photo credits to my my good friend Alex. :)

Before 2013 started I include four local travels and two international trips as a goal. God humbled me to not only travel four places but six. I also had an opportunity to visit my sister in Singapore and had a great time there! Horay to this traveler! :)

3. Angels! 

Darmainne Miel A. Concubierta

Marcus Draneal E. Lucas

Two angels close to my heart was born. On the first photo is my very beautiful niece, Miel or Mielly as I call her. Miel is the best blessing we received this year. She became an instant hit in our family. The very first grandchild, my first niece. Our world revolves around her now. And I believe that she is spoiled to the nth power. Haha! Ah, the perks of being the family's favorite. LOL. On the second photo is my handsome grandson, Marcus. He is my best friend's son. I insisted calling him Aiden because I wanted so. HAHA! And maybe when he's old enough he'll look at me with those inquiring eyes and we'll ask, "Why, Aiden, Ninang?" Haha!

4. God's healing. The Boss.


Maybe he'll told me more than 50 things to remember aside from those written in this book. Oftentimes, he'll try to remind me not to stay late at night, which I seldom follows. Most of the time he seems frustrated in me not recognizing the right direction as to where to go. Again, he'll remind me again the technic in remembering different directions. And so many times he'll remind me not to not drink coffee and eat healthy food, which I never follow.Stubborn, NG! But despite all these I am constantly reminded that God gave me my heart's healing through him.

5. Weddings! 


photo credits to Mr. Alex Dizon


Two of my friends get married this year! Again! Jessalyn, is my elementary best friend. We were inseparable during our childhood days. And we're forever seatmates! Last April she finally had her dream come true. She walked down the aisle and exchange vows to her first boyfriend. After all these years their love surpass its challenges. And again, I was their maid of honor. LOL. Another friend of mine also tied a knot to their love story just last December. Rio also married her first boyfriend. It was so sweet, solemn and full of love. Hmm, I think there was something in first love. HAHA! 

6. Friends. Good company. An opportunity.




Many times I took for granted the things given to me. And I was so sorry. This year, I had an opportunity meeting new friends, expanding my social skills a bit and given a huge opportunity at work. In the last quarter of 2012 I was employed by a publishing house, Precious Pages. It is a great privilege, an honor. Working with them for more than a year teaches me so many things. I learned so much and discovered that work really is indeed a continuous learning. They've been so patient with me and offer so many opportunities. I discovered that I can do more. And for so many things I will be forever grateful. :)



Hmm, I cannot list all of the things happened to me last year. I may forget some of the things happened. Sorry, sorry, forgive this forgetful memory. And as I've said, these were the highlights of my life this 2013! And just like 2013, I am positive that God has greater things stored for me this year! :) Cheers to 2013! 











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I'm 27 and It's Cool!

Just last weekend I celebrated Holiday with my folks in Batangas. And being the hands-on Tita that I am, I take my niece with me everywhere I go. Everybody adores her. And along with their admiration and happiness comes the dreading statement reminding me that I am not getting any younger: “Ikaw kailan ka mag-aasawa?” And I just laughed and shrugged.

Yesterday, I turned 27. And how do I feel being 27? Actually, I feel great. I feel cool. I feel blessed. And most especially I feel loved. Just as I woke up I smiled, prayed and thanked God of all the things He’s been given me. For so many times, I prayed for so many things. I always looked at my life thinking what’s been missing yet I never see what’s been there, and always been there.


This year, my birthday came without anything neither real fanfare nor grand preparation. I am blessed to be greeted by friends and few took tremendous effort to call me from different parts of the globe. And through that I am constantly reminded that distance is not a hindrance in friendship or the time you’re apart from each other. I am humbly reminded that through everything I will get through I will always have my family with me.

The Surprise.



Unlike my previous birthdays, this year, I wanted nothing but to stay at home. The only thing I asked was a birthday cake, just that simple. But as the day ended I received not only a cake but a wonderful surprise. It turned out that my sister planned to get me out of the house (I went with her to get my niece’s passport) in able to fulfill their surprise. They secretly ordered food, in which arrived in my presence without me noticing it. I believed my cousin when she told me that she was waiting for her classmate outside our gate. Ate secretly invited few relatives. She even connived with ‘Boss’ in letting me believe that he was in Batangas when in fact he’s inside our house. And why didn't I notice all these, huh? Maybe because I was not that little girl any more wanting those grand things. ^_^ Their love is enough to let me feel that it is indeed the most wonderful birthday I ever had. So thank you Ate for organizing a perfect surprise! Thank you, Boss, for giving me the most memorable message ever. Thank you, Mama, Mommy and Papa for giving me your utmost support, unconditional love and panlalaglag ever. The gang, Mama Jo, my cousins and relatives, thank you, thank you!

Ate, Our angel Miel and Moi

Birthday cake which I coaxed them to buy

With Ate Ceng and Miel

Boss, Papa, Kuya Edward, Ate Che, Ej and Ate Ceng

Laiza, Mama Elsa, Moi, Bianca and Miel

The repeat. :)

With Boss and Papa

The alter-ego. 



I always thank God for giving me the talent in writing, for giving me the opportunity to bring happiness to other people. Being Nicka Gracia opens a lot of opportunity for me. I met a lot of people, I made new friends, I create my own fortress. Words are not enough to express how thankful I am to all the greetings sent to me. I can never thank all of those who took time and effort to post something on my FB wall. I am so touched and overwhelmed by those greetings. I never thought that I will make it this far, I just wanted to write. Your greetings brought me in tears. But God always find His way to let us know that we are indeed a present to the world. From the bottom of my heart thank you po. 

Birthday Reflection.

photo from Google


My birthday was a day of reflection with both gifts and challenges. It made me think what I did in the past 26 years of my life. It made me count all those blessings and be thankful enough that with every day God gave me an opportunity to be a blessing to others. Yesterday was also the day to not only remember the many losses that are imprinted on my heart, but to celebrate my life. Future is unexpected, we may have so many detours to reach God’s main purpose, but we must be reminded that He ‘always’ prepares the best for us. Today may not be what we expected it to be but that’s okay. In order to grow we sometimes need to experience unfathomable things. Life will not always be the most wonderful fairy tale we want it to be, but it can be the most wonderful fairy tale God want it to be. Thank you, Lord, for giving another year! I love you, Lord!


"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." ~Jeremiah 29:11, NLV

"And you show that you are a letter from Christ delivered by us, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts." 2 Corinthians 3:3


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